Relationships are very sensitive and complicated. Just like you have to take care of a sapling from the stage of a seed to the day till it grows and becomes a plant, relationship is also in the same way. You have to keep watering it until it grows itself to wide strong roots so that it cannot be unrooted easily by other means. Misunderstandings are a common cause with which the relationships break. Why to think before breaking up is the most general thought that one should have in mind.
Breaking up is very easy, but one should always think whether you can move on in life easily after the difficult phase of life, leaving the person you loved before. There are many more common reasons for breaking up. Some of them include misunderstandings, change of minds and thought, differentiation, diversion, ignorance, etc.; ones should always think before divorce. These decisions are not so easy to be taken and just leave and move on in life. Life becomes a mess and it becomes very difficult to handle the situation all alone in life facing the world. Ask yourself a few questions before breaking up. Will you be able to forget and move on in life alone? Will you be happy without your better half? Will you not regret in life for breaking up? And if you have decided then know how to break up with your partner respectfully. Do not humiliate or curse for breaking up. Never underestimate your partner and if you cannot support then don’t become the reason for his/her shattering.
Why not to Break Up
There are a few reasons why one should not jump on the decision of breaking up and can surely make up for further days. Being a single parent for the kids will only burden you up if you are having a divorce. You will have to handle all the responsibilities in life and face the world with its ample of problems all alone. You can analyze your relationship and know when to break up. When your relationship is on the verge where the partners and the individuals are not respecting each other and are not providing the space for each other. If things are getting worse, then you can know that it’s time to move on. The only reason why you should break up with your partner is that if he/she is not happy and contend with you and does not respect you, then you can easily take up the decision of life.
You need to consider things before breaking up. As a human, be kind and soft to your partner. Ensure that the decision is being accepted by both the partners and it is on both of your will and wish that the decision is being taken on.
After the Break Up
Take support from elders and the dear ones. Friends always help you in bad situations. Seek counseling after the break ups. This will ensure that you are mentally strong and sound and are not under depression.